“Stories for Men” by John Kessel
Posted by shannonclark on October 27, 2003
Or if you want to print out the story, here is a better link. FictionWise is nice if you want to read the story on your laptop, but if you prefer to print out a copy to read on paper (and not drain your battery or strain your eyes) the versions available are not printable.
But this link from Asimov’s is.